Wednesday, January 30, 2008

I get tired of explaining

*Sigh* Mark's dental surgery is tentatively scheduled for Feb 21st - however, the receptionist on the phone made it real clear to me that "his wisdom teeth SHOULDN'T be bothering him and giving him that much pain" *HUGE SIGH* I responded " Have you lived with someone with autism or have either of the surgeons??" Of course NOT. I then added " I know it sounds crazy to people that don't live like we do but I've seen Mark get a second degree burn on his feet and sleep like a baby but then turn around and freak out over a hangnail. He is slapping his face and digging in the back of his mouth; If you have a better suggestion, I'm all ears" I AM SO FLOCKING TIRED OF HAVING TO EXPLAIN shat to people about autism. I AM SO FLOCKING TIRED of having to defend my child and help him get a smidge of relief. Sorry to vent but it's just so doggone frustrating to not be heard. Can you imagine how Mark feels?

8 comments:

Momijimanjyu said...

STFU!!


I thought wisdom teeth could start coming through at that age. They must hurt like hell. Poor baby.


*hugs*

MNBandMom said...

They're impacted and not emerging so....according to the surgeon " what's the big deal?" 0_0

Momijimanjyu said...

Can I cuss in you blog? LOL



Tell the surgeon hes a god damn mofo and to eat shat!

MNBandMom said...

Of course you can cuss - I expect nothing less from you 0_0

Momijimanjyu said...

ROFL :)

Mama said...

So sorry - poor Mark!! Poor Marksmomm!

You know - a lot of kids around his age get their wisdom buds removed. I really don't see where their drama is coming from? Is this a ped. oral surgeon?

If they have a better idea of where the pain is coming from, they can offer it!

Mama said...

Probably a really dumb question - but can someone teach Mark the sign for teeth and pain and see what kind of response they get?

MNBandMom said...

Not dumb at all and we are working on it - so far, he only knows to ask for tylenol. If it's not the teeth, I'm clueless as to what's causing all this. I did touch base with Lori today ( one of the group home owners ) to make sure I hadn't lost my "perspective" on all this. Her take is that he is in pain but to keep in mind that he now has a habit of slapping himself that won't leave immediately even IF we tackle the pain piece to this.